Monday, January 14, 2008

What a weekend...

This weekend brought good news followed by sad news. On Friday a bunch of my girlfriends came over to my house for a few drinks and some light appetizers. One of my girlfriends brought the news that she got engaged over Christmas!! Hooray for another wedding! We have all been waiting for this news for some time and it seemed appropriate that she already has nearly the entire wedding planned out already! That's just her!
So Friday was fun and Saturday Rosie came over for lunch and a nap while my sister took the family dog to the vet. Riley has been breathing very heavy and not quite acting like his perky self. It turns out that Riley's lungs and chest were full of fluids, the vet thinks it is caused by a mass on his heart. They were able to get the fluids out, but it is just a matter of days before they will be filled again. The vet does not feel that surgery would be a good option as it is very risky and they have no idea what they will find when they get in there. Riley will be put down on Thursday. My sister is taking it pretty hard and I in turn am feeling a lot of sympathy for what she is going through. We talked about everything and we know that God has a plan, it is very hard for us to hear that the "best option" is to make the call to end his life. I am still praying and hopeful for another option or way.
On another note, my birthday is on Thursday! Yes, it will be a happy day with a sad event. We are going to be very good about not associating Riley with my birthday as Rosie shares her half birthday with my birthday and we do not want her to see it as a sad day. My grandparents took us out to brunch on Sunday to celebrate. It was so nice to see everyone and spend some time with my grandparents before they fly south for the winter!! I didn't go crazy on food at all, actually I skipped the dessert and waffles (my downfall) and stuck with some turkey, fruit, veggies and a small salad. I felt great about my choices.
Sorry this is getting long, I have a lot on my mind I guess! I am going to the local gym with my girlfriend tonight. We both have the same work out goals and we work on the same schedule so I think it will be a good thing for both of us. Hopefully I like the gym and I will look into a membership!!
Well, I will report back on the gym tomorrow!! Have a great day everyone.

Oh, and congrats again Dazey...Twins, how exciting!!!!

7 comments:

Amanda said...

Oh how sad for your sister and Riley. I am heartbroken for you. :( I know if something happened to my Sophie I would (will be) crushed!!! My thoughts are with you guys this week.

Sounds like a pretty good weekend and you did great at the brunch! Way to go!!

HappyBlogChick said...

Oh, poor Riley and poor your sister. That is so hard. My thoughts are with your family.

Anonymous said...

I know exactly what you sister is going through. Its rough...we had to put down my dog 2 years ago. Give her a hug for me!!! I'll be thinking of you all on Thursday!

Anonymous said...

Sorry to hear about Riley :( ((hugs))

Happy Early B-day :)

And love the master bathroom, very cool!!!

Colette said...

OMG I feel so bad for you sister and her family!! Putting down an animal is never easy for the families or the doctors!

Thursdays your birthday you say? Woooohoooo!! Mine is Sunday!!! Well at leats thats 2 smoking hot babes born in January that I know of! lmao..
Hope you have a great birthday inspite of it all!!!
{{{{HUGS}}}}

Tina said...

Awww, I'm sorry... that's so sad for your sister. My heart goes out to her....

Swizzlepop said...

I'm so sorry for your sister and Riley and you. My thoughts are with you all. ((((HUGS))))

And how cool that you celebrate Rosie's half birthday. I think everyone should do that! :)