Our Fight

Derek and I got in a little fight last night, well more like bad communication. After Derek's comma, he fell behind in his Tuesday night class and his professor is unwilling to let him make up the work or do extra credit. At this point he can either finish the class with a poor grade or drop the class and retake the course next semester. I have never been in this sort of situation and since we spent the money on the class I hate to just say "give up". I know that it has been a major source of stress for him and he feels completely burnt out between the new job and school.
Anyways when I got home from work last night he tried to explain what he was feeling and I got upset because he said "you don't understand how stressful it is". I broke down, I may not show it to him but I am exhausted. Waking up at 5, taking care of the house, going to work till 4, heading directly to school until 9 and then coming home to dishes in the sink, him laying on the couch and still needing to pack my lunch and get things ready for the morning. I know that I have the benefit of being at a computer all day and can sometimes manage to get some schoolwork finished during my breaks, but in no way is this easy or un-stressful. I want to give up, I want to break down and cry, but I said I was going to do this and I have no intentions giving up. At the same time, I depend on Derek a lot. I make him set his alarm to wake me up, I constantly complain about the closet not being finished and I always keep him busy. I guess I am not great at giving him time to do homework, and sometimes I expect him to never take a break. I still have a lot to learn, we both do. I hate fighting though, I hated leaving this morning upset and feeling like I don't do enough. I know that he had no intentions of making it seem like I have things easy or that I don't do anything, the comparison is hard to ignore.
On the food front, I am staying OP, doesn't feel like it, but I am. I have been eating breakfast early (around 7) a few small, low point snacks throughout the day (granola bar, yogurt, fiber one, vegetable soup), followed by an early dinner (around 5). I am done eating for the day by 6:30. I think the fact that I am in class and can't snack during the evening really helps me. Hopefully I will be to goal by the end of the month!